10 Wedding Details Everyone Forgets (But You Won’t!)
Planning a wedding is like having about 700 different tiny details to remember. Yes, that seems a lot but it’s like that sometimes! While you’ve probably nailed down essential things like looking for romantic wedding venues, ordering flowers, and choosing the songs for the perfect playlist, other small but important details can slip through the cracks. But don’t worry, here’s a list of common wedding day “oopsies” so you can avoid enjoying your happily ever after day as you should.
1. The marriage license
It’s not just a piece of paper, it’s the piece of paper. You might remember the rings, but don’t forget the document that makes you married. Without it, your “I dos” might need a legal do-over.
2. Payments to vendors
You don’t want to be that couple dashing out of your reception to handle a last-minute payment. Therefore, remember to take care of any final payments beforehand, so the only thing you’ll be tossing on your big day is the bouquet.
3. Thank-you notes
Your wedding vendors are the unsung heroes of your day, so don’t ghost them post-wedding. A simple thank-you note will make them feel as warm and fuzzy as that first glass of champagne, after all, they are making your big day very special.
4. Including yourself in the guest count
Don’t forget to count yourself and your fiancé when planning seating and meals. You deserve a seat at your own party. But beyond that, accurately accounting for yourselves ensures that your vendors, especially the caterer, have the right numbers to work with.
5. Transportation
Don’t rely on rideshare apps to magically appear in the middle of nowhere. Plan your transport ahead of time so no one has to hitchhike in a wedding gown.
6. Silverware
It’s all fun and games until you realize you’ve got a five-course meal and no forks. When touring romantic wedding venues double-check if they provide silverware otherwise, be prepared to rent it.
7. A seamstress
Murphy’s Law dictates that a hem will tear right before the first dance. Have a seamstress or at least a sewing kit on standby. It’s better to be prepared than sorry!
8. A phone charger
Your phone’s been blowing up all day with well wishes, and now it’s dead. Keep a charger handy so you can take those late-night selfies, because if it’s not on Instagram, did it even happen? (unless you want a very private wedding).
9. Extra boutonnière
Make sure you order extras and actually get them on everyone before the photographer starts snapping.
10. Assigning someone to gather gifts
When the party’s over, don’t leave your gifts behind. Assign a trusted friend to gather them so you can enjoy your honeymoon swag in peace. Otherwise, you risk losing or forgetting valuable items in the post-celebration chaos.
Remembering this small but very important details can actually save you from potential headaches and ensure that your special day runs smoothly. Perhaps you can share this list with your bridesmaids, wedding planner, and family so they can also help keep things on track and stress-free. If you are in the early stages of the process and looking for romantic wedding venues our ballrooms are here to make sure your wedding is perfect. Contact us today to book a tour.
